Leverkusen. January 21st is International World Cuddling Day – the perfect opportunity to take a closer look at how dog owners cuddle their dogs in a way that strengthens, rather than harms, their relationship.
“Forced cuddling is unpleasant for dogs,” says Anne Bucher, dog trainer and founder of “Different with Dog”. “For example, anyone who puts their dog on a short leash and then roughly hugs and holds them is doing the animal and the relationship a disservice. But if cuddling is pleasant for people and dogs, then it leads to more bonding and has a positive effect on well-being.”
Anne Bucher explains: “For dogs, cuddling is a way to reduce stress, gain security and deepen the relationship with their humans. But to ensure that the cuddling experience remains pleasant for both parties, a few important aspects should be taken into account.”
With these six tips, Anne Bucher shows how dog owners can make cuddly moments more harmonious:
1. Separate cuddling from personal care and exams
Cuddling should only be used for relaxation. If a tick bite or a small wound is discovered while stroking, care should be given later. “Plan separate sessions for examinations or medical training so that cuddling remains undisturbed and is experienced positively,” advises Bucher.
2. Allow freedom when cuddling
Dogs should never be held or restricted in their movement while cuddling. A dog must have the opportunity to end contact at any time. “The more mindful we are of our dog’s body language, the more pleasant the cuddling experience will be for both sides,” says the founder of “Different with Dog”.
3. Understand the dog's body language
Body language provides important clues about how the dog is feeling. Changes in breathing, body tension or small evasive movements show whether the dog is enjoying the contact or feels uncomfortable. “Awareness of these small signals helps us to make cuddling positive,” explains Bucher.
4. Enrich cuddling with breaks
Taking regular breaks during cuddling allows the dog to decide for himself whether he wants to continue the contact. “Dogs who seek contact voluntarily enjoy the closeness more intensively and relax more deeply,” explains the expert.
5. Introduce rituals and signals
Dogs can be specifically prepared for cuddly moments through fixed rituals, such as a special cuddly blanket or announcements before physical contact. “This creates security and trust – especially for dogs who are more reserved when cuddling,” recommends Bucher.
6. Get to know the dog's preferences
Every dog has individual preferences. Some like strong massages, others prefer gentle stroking or simply lying down with physical contact. “Learn what your dog likes and adapt to his needs. This makes cuddling moments a special experience,” explains Bucher.
“With these tips you can strengthen the bond with the dog and ensure that cuddling is pleasant for both parties and good for their well-being,” summarizes Bucher. “Every day – not just on World Cuddle Day.”
About Anne Bucher
Anne Bucher is a dog trainer, lecturer and founder of the “Different with Dog” concept. With her needs-oriented approach, she helps dog-human teams to live together more relaxed and harmoniously.
International World Cuddle Day
World Cuddle Day was founded by the American pastor Kevin Zaborney in 1986 and was first celebrated in the city of Caro, Michigan. Zaborney chose the date to be the midpoint between Christmas as the festival of love and Valentine's Day as the day of lovers during the winter period, as the gloomy mood during this time had a very strong influence on the emotional world. The aim of the day is to be able to better express feelings in public and to get closer to each other. (Source: Wikipedia)